The article by Anita Selec discusses the discrepancy between the legal advancements in LGBT rights in Bosnia and Herzegovina (BiH) and the actual experiences of fear, discrimination, and harassment faced by the LGBT community. Despite anti-discrimination laws, surveys show that a significant percentage of LGBT individuals feel unsafe. The story of Luka and Mihajlo, a gay couple, illustrates the challenges of living a double life to avoid discrimination and violence. They maintain a facade of being roommates to their families and are cautious about their online presence. Suzana, a bisexual woman, notes that public perception is slowly changing, especially among younger generations, but acknowledges that safety concerns remain, particularly for gay men. The article highlights the personal struggles of the LGBT community in BiH, where societal acceptance lags behind legal protections.